Because if this is your reality, you have to move on. Like ASAP. 1. He texts you. But never calls. Guys crave for attention and appreciation. And this is mainly why they sometimes entertain women who likes them even if they aren't really interested with her. They want someone who can affirm their greatness and appreciate their good qualities as a person. But take note that your conversations with a man who's not into you don't usually last for hours. He might just actually entertain you at night when he's got nothing else to do and he's bored. He would reply to your texts but never attempt to call. Calls are more personal for men. Hearing someone's voice signals a sense of closeness. This is why they don't feel the need to call a girl they don't like in the first place. 2. All the times you've ever gone out were always initiated by you, not him. Men feel this natural need to impress a girl they like. This is why if he's really into you, he would do anything just to please you by planning dates in line with your interests. But if he's not, then the task of initiating dates and planning them out are all on you, girl. (sigh) 3. He shares his interests with you but never asks about yours. This is connected with their need to feel appreciated. He likes someone who is interested in what they do because they feel important as a person. However, if they are not into you, they won't reciprocate the conversation by asking about your interests, talents and passion. It just works that way. Men don't feel the need to waste time trying to get to know someone whom they don't feel attracted to. If he's not into you, it's high time you see your worth and look for someone else who would do anything and everything for you. 4. He never gives you anything special. (Unless, of course, you asked for pasalubong or a gift blatantly.) Guys love to spoil the girl they like. It's embedded in their DNA to splurge on gifts, flowers and chocolates for that one special girl. So don't be surprised if he seems to be kuripot on you. Yes, he might buy you stuff but only because you asked for them. This goes the same way for paying on dates. A guy would offer to pay for dinner dates if the girl he's with is someone he wants to truly impress. But if he sees her as just a friend, then he would treat her as such, i.e. not paying for her part of the meal. 5. You've never met his best guy friends. There's no need, really because you're not his significant other. Period. Guys like to show off the girl they like to their best friends because she's one of a kind. She's beautiful, smart, loving, caring, and so much more. But if he doesn't see you this way, expect to never meet his best buds. 6. You were never formally introduced to his family as a significant other. His family is a huge part of his life. Their approval matters to him, of course. Plus, if he plans to keep you in the long run, he would like you to get to know the people in his life, his parents who have raised him up and his siblings who grew up with him. If he doesn't have any plans to introduce you to them as his significant other, chances are he's so not into you, darling. And if he's not into you, it's high time you see your worth and look for someone else who would do anything and everything for you.
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